How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love with You

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5 How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love with You

Who doesn't want to fall in love? It’s an almost universal desire, as common as a hashtag on a Kardashian tweet. If you are interested in a girl and desperately want her to love you back, there are some ways to inspire her interest. Most importantly, be yourself and respect her for who she is.

1-Look great.

 Looks aren’t every girl’s biggest priority, but it’ll definitely be a perk if you can look really fit and healthy. Work out, look healthy, dress well, and smell great. You’ll make a much better first impression with every girl you meet.

2-Take care of you.

 Women are generally attracted to men that demonstrate that they are able to self-care. This includes good grooming, and an overall healthy look. Keeping your body feeling and looking strong and healthy, is a big evolutionary sign of your “reproductive fitness” — basically, a sign that your genes are strong and healthy too.
  • Keeping yourself well-groomed and healthy suggests self-confidence and a healthy respect for yourself, which most people find attractive.
  • This does not mean you have to go overboard and become a marathoner or a bodybuilder. You may, however, want to consider join a gym or an ultimate Frisbee team to feel healthy and more confident about yourself, and thus be more attractive. Instead, be the best version of yourself and be true to yourself.

3-Let her see that you have a life.

 Keep yourself busy and involve yourself in different activities. Go on out there and enjoy the world, be it by trekking over the weekend, joining a few fun clubs or even doing something new with your friends. The more interesting you and your conversations are, the more awed by you she’ll be.

4-Look for open body language.

 Body language cues that say “I’m available” and “I’m approachable” suggest that the other person is in a state of mind that is receptive to your advances. Look for things such as:
  • Smiling
  • Making eye contact with you
  • Looking up (instead of staying absorbed with a phone, etc.)
  • Standing or sitting with the arms and legs relaxed and uncrossed
  • Keeping her feet pointed toward you if you’re having a conversation
5-Touch her.

 The power of touch is something most guys overlook while trying to make a girl fall in love with them. While talking to her, look for an excuse to touch her now and then. You could place your hand on her lower back while crossing the street, or touch her earlobe while admiring her earring, or even linger the hug for just a moment longer than necessary while saying goodbye.

6-Show her you like her while acting like you don’t.

It’s a precise tightrope. Find the perfect balance between trying hard and playing hard to get.

7-Give her a gift.

 But make sure the gift is something small or insignificant that it doesn’t even feel like a gift. You could give her a pen, or a little showpiece or a little something you think she’ll like.

Every time she sees it, it would remind her of you, and yet, because you haven’t told her you like her already, it’ll make her wonder what your intentions are, and that’ll make her fall for you, slowly and steadily even before she realizes it herself!.

8-Show her your lovable qualities.

 People don't just decide with whom they want to fall in love. Love happens because the people involved have lovable qualities. Love often develops over time, so your job is to show the girl that you're worth being around. Let your personality shine through, and give her the chance to see who you really are and what you have to offer. It turns out that people often find traits such as humor, kindness, and honesty make you more physically attractive!
  • Other qualities that can affect how people perceive your attractiveness include respectfulness, honesty, hard work, and intelligence.
  • Studies also suggest that heterosexual women are more likely to value personality and social traits such as kindness and intelligence over physical traits.

9-Don’t always be available.

 If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, be there for her. But if you feel like she’s using you at any point of time, back off and tell her you’re busy. If you avoid backing off now and then when you’re busy or when you feel like she’s using you for something, you’ll end up becoming her doormat and her man friday. And remember this, a girl would never want to date a guy who behaves like her slave.

10-But don’t be an asshole.

 Being unavailable now and then while wooing a girl is a great way to let her see that you’re not always available at her beck and call. But that doesn’t mean you have to behave like a total ass. Be charming and courteous around her, and never treat her badly or disrespectfully. 

It’s easy to make a girl fall in love with you. All you need to do is play it safe and smooth and avoid making your intentions clear right at the beginning. And use these 10 foolproof steps on how to make a girl fall in love with you!

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